First of all ask yourselves how important is it to you to have a rapport or connection to your officiant? This is the person standing between the two of you and will guide you in saying your vows. You might consider what you do not want to happen at your ceremony? Rev. Dalton often adds that layer of comfort and predictability to honor what you want said, while being spontaneously joyful while tasteful and appropriate. The minister or officiant is a significant person that will bless and keep your relationship held with the best of intentions. Again, an officiant should bring lasting memories long after your wedding day.