Believe it or not, not every officiant is at ease with speaking. If you are intending to have a family member or friend officiate, it can be even more risky and important that the officiant has had experience with public speaking. The day will naturally bring some anxiety and it is important to feel relaxed and confidant as to what will be said during the ceremony. The officiant is the first voice you, your family and guests will hear to welcome the day. How important is that?